Frail Souls

Use it or lose it. Use your soul's energy, intuition, omnipotence and omniscience with people, places and things. Often or constantly. Otherwise, you block your connection to "all that is" and forget the infinite soul being that you truly are.

Originally was posting a Christmas story today - filled with heart, soul, and the true meaning of Christmas. Giving you a snapshot of my family's Christmas celebrations from 1964-1987. Twenty-three straight years. How we celebrated, appreciated, and enjoyed each other's presence this time of year. Christmases filled with laughter, joy, fun. Not filled with angst, anxiety, nor division - like some families experience now.

Last night, I watched Amazon's Christmas movie "Oh. What. Fun." A dysfunctional family led by two parents: a self-absorbed mother more interested in her neighbors' approval than the lives of her own children; and a soul-vacant, absent-minded dad with no leadership skills. That can't be a real snapshot of today's families. Is it? I hope not. No heart and soul in that movie. It showed a constant cluster of Frail Souls.

Hollywood has definitely strayed from their original goals of heart and soul entertainment. Exposing the deep canyon divide between soulful, inspirational, heart-filled days of "Miracle on 34th Street", "It's a Wonderful Life", "The Bishop's Wife", "A Christmas Carol", and today's anti-family, soul bereft, socially flat Christmas movies.

After watching that movie, I thought, "Thank God me and my family chose to spend time together surrounded by Light and Love - especially during Christmas." We chose that, intuitively and naturally. We chose to enjoy times we spent together: My brother Mark, sister Kara, Mom, Dad and me. We saw no other choice but joy, fun, laughter! We didn't force it or talk about it. It just happened. By August 1988, it was all gone. Our family destroyed by murder.

After the murders, Mom and I tried to resurrect that family Christmas joyful feeling. It just wasn't the same. Two incredible people- Mark and Kara - whose individual soul magic and unique traits added depth, familiarity and comfort to our joys: gone. Irreplaceable.

As the sole survivor, I tried finding new people who fit our family, to join us on Christmas. To expand our 3-piece family (me, Mom, Dad) back to the 5-piece family again. After the 9th year of searching and failing, I gave up. Nothing could replace the delightful soul and human energies of Mark and Kara. Their absence left a gaping hole in our hearts and souls - never to be refilled. Thank God for their presence in our lives, however short. Mark was 26 and Kara was 20 when they died.

Kara's robust smile, blatant honesty, heart of gold, and lust for life: gone. Mark's soul gifts of humor, constant pranks, jokes, laughter, need for fairness, and referee role: gone. As a family, we rarely argued. We disagreed sometimes. Spoke our truths. Feeling completely safe being our unique selves. We knew how to communicate. Respected and adored each other. Stayed open to feedback and different opinions.

When faced with a life situation, we asked each other for honest opinions. Seeking different ways of looking at a problem or life experience. Seeking honest guidance and feedback. We helped each other that way. Respected each other that way. What a blessing to have that. Honest feedback with no "noise" or judgment. Leaning on each other, praising each other - through good times and bad. Two heads are better than one. When you're "inside" a situation, getting outside feedback helps. An extra pair of eyes and ears. That's what Mark, Kara and I were to each other. Our parents taught us that.

Have American families changed since 1980s? Become more surface than substance? I'm honestly asking. Based on my experiences with other people last 40 years, it appears families have changed. Less communion and togetherness. More division and in-fighting. I hope my experiences with other families is the exception. And my direct family experience (me and my siblings) is the rule. Why? Because we were raised with strong souls, not frail ones.

I scroll through social media and see nothing but frail souls. That makes me very sad. We should be evolving and elevating as souls. Not devolving and diminishing. Honoring and listening to differences: evolving and elevating. Fighting, judging, attacking: devolving and diminishing our soul humanity.

As a family, we used our soul energies all the time when together. Soul energy? Happiness and joy - part of everyone's soul essence. Happiness and joy: how we felt when all five of us were together. Even if we disagreed on stuff, we didn't let those disagreements interfere with joy and happiness of being a family. Especially during Christmas time.

Most families forget to do that now. They forget to enjoy each other. They get caught up in the minutia of image, ego, division, competition or being perfect. They see their opposite traits as a picket line, not a picket fence. They fear honesty and speaking from the heart. Afraid of offending each other. To me, that's insane. When confronted with opposing views, listen; don't argue or fight. Stay open and learn. Ask "why". Sit back and listen. If someone asks you a question, answer honestly without vitriol or anger. Shine your Soul Light.

In today's America, people want to fight more than listen and understand. That's not spiritual. That's not what your soul seeks and needs. Fighting, or finding fault without providing resolution, is antithetical to your soul energy. A behavior pattern of fighting, criticizing or judging shows soul frailty.

Only weak souls, those with a weak soul connection or no soul connection, fight against opposite views, opinions or actions. Weak souls judge first and grab facts later. Weak souls hide behind labels. Weak souls strive to be right or perfect. Weak souls suck in positive energy and exhale negative energy in any room. Weak souls thirst for attention - even bad attention.

Strong souls respect opposite views and opinions. Strong souls value feedback - good and bad. Strong souls listen more than talk. Strong souls don't care what people think. Strong souls - people walking Earth while strongly connected to their soul - don't judge as their first response. They rarely judge others. They speak their truth after listening and evaluating.

Every person wants to feel heard and appreciated. It's an innate, natural trait we're all born with. When you gather with your family and friends this month, sit down with each person. Ask them how they're doing. Listen more than talk. Bond with them. Learn more about them. Laugh with them. With each person you talk with - or visit with - keep this in mind: "What if they're not on Earth next year?"

Years ago, I wrote a blog "The Art of Listening." It's included in my next book. Every person wants to feel heard, seen, and appreciated. Listening is the key to that.

People who are fully connected with their souls, do this. Laugh at silly mistakes. Help someone in trouble. Speak their truths: heart, mind and soul - no matter the potential backlash. Find unity and value in diversity. See big picture instead of singularity or perfection. Create stability in the chaos. Encourage and honor variety of thought and experiences with other people.

People with strong spiritual values - time-tested values and spiritual ideology - seek compromise over competition. They see win-win solutions in any situation. They rarely get defensive or offended. They do get frustrated. Especially in today's DEI, censored, "fragile", virtual reality, fake social media world. Strong souls see it all. They buck those trends. They see through the BS. They push against it. They exhibit courage under fire. They keep their bodies clean - no drugs or nefarious substances that disconnect their soul connection. Candace Owens and Tucker Carlson are strong souls. Some people will disagree. I state what I see. Calling balls and strikes of people's souls: that's my job.

If you want to know what my family was like, watch any episode of Blue Bloods, or movie "The Family Stone". We were real like that. Honesty, unity, diversity, comedy, and family first.

Christmas is a magical time of year. Every December is a magical time. End of year magic - since the creation of the Gregorian calendar by Pope Gregory XIII in 1582. The magic doesn't happen around you. It happens inside you. The magic of your soul. Set it free and share it with others. Your soul's magic can create miracles and merriment. Release that magic inside you.

Every December, we stop and make time to gather with people we care about - forced or unforced. It's a time when we appreciate and honor our individual and collective souls. No matter which eon, age or calendar, the end of society's year holds great meaning. Communion of souls. A time of reflection and celebration. Reflecting on our soul lives and celebrating our Earth journey with people who inspire, assist, nurture us.

Christmas is a soul-inspired time of year. Unleash your soul's power. Don't restrict it around weak souls. Express it fully and deliberately with them. Show the strength of your soul. Don't cower to soul frailty. Spread your Soul Light on it.

Soul Advice when physically meeting with your friends &/or family. Elevate the energy of a weak soul. That's the only way to help weak souls and strengthen the souls of humanity on the planet. If a weak soul wants to play insecure games, say "No, Thank You." Face them and speak your truth. Tell them what you see. Don't play insecure games created by weak souls.

Swat soul weakness by revealing your soul strength. Be a role model for weak souls. Ask them questions. Like "Why are you behaving that way? Why do you want to disrupt a good time? Why attack so much? Why so defensive?" Then listen. Learn. Show them how a strong connected soul behaves. With respect. Without deference.

If you have a family member that likes disrupting the positive flow of family get-togethers, face them head-on this year. Don't defer to their behavior. Don't sink to their level. Elevate them to YOUR positive, high-vibrating level.

Make this Christmas epic, legendary and unforgettable. Conflicts turn ugly and badly when not immediately acknowledged and fixed. Compromise vs. Compete. Be honestly, authentically you. Be who you are - as a soul. Create peace, unity and happiness at every event or gathering you attend.

Next year (2026), humanity enters in a new spiritual phase. Soul survival mode. Facing facts, being honest, and living in reality - all define 2026. Start practicing now. The days of false narratives ruling this planet - ends in 2026. The days of lying to ourselves, denying our soul essence: ends in 2026. People acting against their soul essence have a very rough road in 2026. Many will not survive - physically and spiritually.

If you know a person acting against their soul essence, call them on it. Help them return to their soul essence.

When someone returns to their soul essence, they feel lighter, better, happier. Life will challenge us. We can't always feel happy. Impossible. We do instinctively know: happiness is our soul's natural state. Our souls love Earth. Our souls crave love and communion with other souls on Earth. Our souls crave feedback while on Earth. Especially spiritual soul-based feedback. Even if we fight against that feedback, our souls thirst for it. Our souls need it.

Help frail souls "Reconnect with Their Beautiful Spirit" (TM). Use your soul magic to create magic and miracles in others' lives this year. Be the Light that shines on another person's darkness. Lead them back to their soul.

Merry Christmas

Robin, Your Sedona Spirit Psychic

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